When Joy was studying in Mumbai, Jai and Joy could not meet normal days since both of us were studying in 24hours away distance. Therefore, after Jai proposed Joy (even that was over the phone!), we could meet only after 4months. He traveled to Mumbai. Till the day I was saving 5 rupees per day for 70days (350 Rupees) and small earning was there in field work, thus when he arrived, I passed 600 Rupees around to spend 3days of us. Next meeting was after 2months in my Dewali vacation, then after 1month, on Christmas.... then next was after 4months since I got one month internship opportunity in Delhi, happily the place was just 15minutes from his institute! So... till that time, though we were chattting everyday by phone, total meeting days were only 10days or so... (amazing....)
Then I completed the internship and went back to Mumbai for convocation and shifted to Gujarat for my job. Though the distance to Delhi became a little bit closer, still it was difficult to meet. That time Guju ka straik keep stopping the railway and train delayed maximum 12hours.....!!! When I need to go back to Japan once for renewal of visa, I depertured from Delhi international air port. that time also we could meet only several days and needed to leave.
After reaching to Japan, again we found out somewhat communication tool like cheaper international phone call or skype then I visited him after one month for 10days since my new job might start shortly. After that I was busy for part time job and training in Japan and again in December after 4months visited him for 10days. Now... since I got sick after that we could noot meet almost 7months. I was about to leave last week, however problem happened in visa application and the deperture needed to be postponed 10days.... we did not know how we spent last 7months... it was most taugh time in my life because I was sick, jobless, and saving was keep decreasing because to stay in japan is too costly even I was at home. My age friends continuously got married while I was in that condition, and I could not help to envy them. I felt so miserable myself since they have job, earning, staying with partner, seemed stable in all the way.
Some of my friends encoulaged me that my process may take time because I have dream to achieve. Still the days here were like taucher because in evey place of the city I could not help to see couples dating. I really missed him how it will be enjoyable if he is here with me. .. but it is very difficult for him to come by his nationality to Japan.....
Jai's 7days before Joy was proposed
I (Joy) was there in Delhi for my summer vacation visiting JNU friends and all. Since I got bored to spend time in JNU, I went to visit my friend's home. (Actually, that time one JNU guy was introduced to me by my friend, and he sent me till metro station. but conversation between i and him was not went smoothly and thats why i got a little bored...) The home which i visited that day was... uncle's house where i was staying before admission. You may remember when I met Jai for the first time, the uncle was with me for admission enquiry. That day i spent one day with his family and another uncle, previous uncle's brother sent me till the gate of Jai's institute next afternoon because i contacted to Jai after 1year.....
Got down from the car i saw Jai was standing at the entrance. However, since i have not seen him for a year, I could not recognized that was same person... :D
Anyway he took me his canteen, and chatted with his friends and took me jouice stand and treated mango shake. I was happy because I have not seen Mango shake so often in Mumbai.
We chatted for a while and went back to JNU. As the impression, Jai was not so bad than I have been felt. Actually what he did last year was keep sending me stupid joke SMS... and i got disturbed. He was excusing that was only such messages came from his friends and sending was free.
On the next day i had some work in WHO office nearby his institute. So after that I called up to him and we met again. The next day too i had another work and came again to WHO so i came to meet him again. He seemed surprised my continuous visit. It was just because I had good impression to him and felt good to have new friend in Delhi.
Every time he sent me till JNU in the evening and i was just wondered why this guy is so kind all the way to comming to send me back. One funny moment was when we are walking in JNU campus, we met that guy who i was arranged by my friend. He saw Jai and me walking together and may felt something... hehehe...
Jai seemed wanted to look around Delhi (though he has been staying in Delhi for 2yrs, he was saying he have not yet looked around at all!), and I also got interested, thus we went to temple and market.
I still remember on the last day before I was going back to Mumbai. We went to market and i felt hungry. I said him. Then he purchased bananas for me. we sit on the bus stand and ate 2bananas each (it's too funny in japanese context to eat bananas in dating because the scene is soo daily means not pretending to be beautiful or handsome to the expected partner!!) and left. the last day he did not sent me till JNU even though market was very near to there. I wondered that he seemed liking me but i was left like that so he is just a friend...
after reaching back to JNU by myself i sent SMS to him and asked either he reached to his institute safely. we chatted for a while and i prepared for leaving on the next day morning to Mumbai.
Got down from the car i saw Jai was standing at the entrance. However, since i have not seen him for a year, I could not recognized that was same person... :D
Anyway he took me his canteen, and chatted with his friends and took me jouice stand and treated mango shake. I was happy because I have not seen Mango shake so often in Mumbai.
We chatted for a while and went back to JNU. As the impression, Jai was not so bad than I have been felt. Actually what he did last year was keep sending me stupid joke SMS... and i got disturbed. He was excusing that was only such messages came from his friends and sending was free.
On the next day i had some work in WHO office nearby his institute. So after that I called up to him and we met again. The next day too i had another work and came again to WHO so i came to meet him again. He seemed surprised my continuous visit. It was just because I had good impression to him and felt good to have new friend in Delhi.
Every time he sent me till JNU in the evening and i was just wondered why this guy is so kind all the way to comming to send me back. One funny moment was when we are walking in JNU campus, we met that guy who i was arranged by my friend. He saw Jai and me walking together and may felt something... hehehe...
Jai seemed wanted to look around Delhi (though he has been staying in Delhi for 2yrs, he was saying he have not yet looked around at all!), and I also got interested, thus we went to temple and market.
I still remember on the last day before I was going back to Mumbai. We went to market and i felt hungry. I said him. Then he purchased bananas for me. we sit on the bus stand and ate 2bananas each (it's too funny in japanese context to eat bananas in dating because the scene is soo daily means not pretending to be beautiful or handsome to the expected partner!!) and left. the last day he did not sent me till JNU even though market was very near to there. I wondered that he seemed liking me but i was left like that so he is just a friend...
after reaching back to JNU by myself i sent SMS to him and asked either he reached to his institute safely. we chatted for a while and i prepared for leaving on the next day morning to Mumbai.
joy 7 days in delhi before jai propose
joy came delhi many times but she never met with jai
lastly when her friend was too busy she decided to meet with jai
she came around 3pm in my institute
she called me and said she is waiting outside of my institute . i was shocked
at that time i was chatting with my friend i said them someone has came from long distance to meet with me
i went and recieved her
i took her to my college canteen where my friend were chating
she took lots of my pics which i didnot knew
i was too innocent and fool.
one of my friend say suggested me that i should go and have something with her
i took her to juice corner
i asked her where she is staying
she said me at JNU. i went to JNU which was approx 20 km from my college even at that time she said me she can go by her own.
in between we had an icecream and i said whatever i want
i still remember in those day i took her different part of city which i wanted to visit
i only did one good thing was i holded her hand in temple
i was too frustrate my life in college so i share ever thing which i could share
anyway i would say those wounder full lucky 7days in my life
lastly when her friend was too busy she decided to meet with jai
she came around 3pm in my institute
she called me and said she is waiting outside of my institute . i was shocked
at that time i was chatting with my friend i said them someone has came from long distance to meet with me
i went and recieved her
i took her to my college canteen where my friend were chating
she took lots of my pics which i didnot knew
i was too innocent and fool.
one of my friend say suggested me that i should go and have something with her
i took her to juice corner
i asked her where she is staying
she said me at JNU. i went to JNU which was approx 20 km from my college even at that time she said me she can go by her own.
in between we had an icecream and i said whatever i want
i still remember in those day i took her different part of city which i wanted to visit
i only did one good thing was i holded her hand in temple
i was too frustrate my life in college so i share ever thing which i could share
anyway i would say those wounder full lucky 7days in my life
From Joy: Just about... Jai
I feel Jai is very pure and cute sometimes.
He liked teasing juniors before, and it seemed he was a threaten of his juniors once apon a time. However, after he knew that I really hate teasing custom, he simply stopped (for me, maybe).
Another episode is that I said I like flower one day.
In the next date, I was waiting him at the park and he was approaching to the bunch which I have been waited. I noticed him and...
he appeared with red roses!!
...how sweet you are!!
He liked teasing juniors before, and it seemed he was a threaten of his juniors once apon a time. However, after he knew that I really hate teasing custom, he simply stopped (for me, maybe).
Another episode is that I said I like flower one day.
In the next date, I was waiting him at the park and he was approaching to the bunch which I have been waited. I noticed him and...
he appeared with red roses!!
...how sweet you are!!
From Joy: First mail
Afterwards, I luckily got government scholarship to study in master course on Social Work in Mumbai and admission procedure became kind of smooth not like Jai faced before. I came alone to Mumbai with hope and little bit anxiety because I did not know anyone there though I collected as much Mumbai contact as possible from my Indian friends in Japan.
At first for the admission registration, a staff asked me "Are you in SC/ST?" I could not understand what I was asked at first, but later on I realized that I was recognized as person from north east states of India. They have similar facial traits as Mongorian. I replied after some time that I am foreign student.
The hostel life with other Indians was very interesting and they also got interest in me because I was only one Japanese there. Though my English was not so fluent that time, friends who pursue to be social workers from all over India are very kind in nature and we enjoyed the union. Especially I became close with my neighboring room Nepalese girl since we are only two foreign nationals in our batch.
His mail came in such season and I could not recognized at first who sent me email as if the person knows me. I asked very rudely "who are you?" and all then I recognized he was the guy who I met in the other institute the other day. I just thought to make friend with him since I was not much aquintance just after arrived to India.
At first for the admission registration, a staff asked me "Are you in SC/ST?" I could not understand what I was asked at first, but later on I realized that I was recognized as person from north east states of India. They have similar facial traits as Mongorian. I replied after some time that I am foreign student.
The hostel life with other Indians was very interesting and they also got interest in me because I was only one Japanese there. Though my English was not so fluent that time, friends who pursue to be social workers from all over India are very kind in nature and we enjoyed the union. Especially I became close with my neighboring room Nepalese girl since we are only two foreign nationals in our batch.
His mail came in such season and I could not recognized at first who sent me email as if the person knows me. I asked very rudely "who are you?" and all then I recognized he was the guy who I met in the other institute the other day. I just thought to make friend with him since I was not much aquintance just after arrived to India.
From Jai: Mail
After that i waited for her till august so that i can see once more to her
but she did not took admission in my college
I was sad but i remember she gave me email address
so i though better to write a mail
I asked her where she is and what she is doing
she replyed me and she left number too
I was most suprise at that time
I called her we just said each other hi and how r u?
she introduced one Nepalese girl to me
as i was happy to hear by Nepalese girl
like that we contacted for a year long
but she did not took admission in my college
I was sad but i remember she gave me email address
so i though better to write a mail
I asked her where she is and what she is doing
she replyed me and she left number too
I was most suprise at that time
I called her we just said each other hi and how r u?
she introduced one Nepalese girl to me
as i was happy to hear by Nepalese girl
like that we contacted for a year long
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