From Joy: Love beyond the Distance

When Joy was studying in Mumbai, Jai and Joy could not meet normal days since both of us were studying in 24hours away distance. Therefore, after Jai proposed Joy (even that was over the phone!), we could meet only after 4months. He traveled to Mumbai. Till the day I was saving 5 rupees per day for 70days (350 Rupees) and small earning was there in field work, thus when he arrived, I passed 600 Rupees around to spend 3days of us. Next meeting was after 2months in my Dewali vacation, then after 1month, on Christmas.... then next was after 4months since I got one month internship opportunity in Delhi, happily the place was just 15minutes from his institute! So... till that time, though we were chattting everyday by phone, total meeting days were only 10days or so... (amazing....)
Then I completed the internship and went back to Mumbai for convocation and shifted to Gujarat for my job. Though the distance to Delhi became a little bit closer, still it was difficult to meet. That time Guju ka straik keep stopping the railway and train delayed maximum 12hours.....!!! When I need to go back to Japan once for renewal of visa, I depertured from Delhi international air port. that time also we could meet only several days and needed to leave.

After reaching to Japan, again we found out somewhat communication tool like cheaper international phone call or skype then I visited him after one month for 10days since my new job might start shortly. After that I was busy for part time job and training in Japan and again in December after 4months visited him for 10days. Now... since I got sick after that we could noot meet almost 7months. I was about to leave last week, however problem happened in visa application and the deperture needed to be postponed 10days.... we did not know how we spent last 7months... it was most taugh time in my life because I was sick, jobless, and saving was keep decreasing because to stay in japan is too costly even I was at home. My age friends continuously got married while I was in that condition, and I could not help to envy them. I felt so miserable myself since they have job, earning, staying with partner, seemed stable in all the way.

Some of my friends encoulaged me that my process may take time because I have dream to achieve. Still the days here were like taucher because in evey place of the city I could not help to see couples dating. I really missed him how it will be enjoyable if he is here with me. .. but it is very difficult for him to come by his nationality to Japan.....